"Good
morning Elders and Sisters. My name is
Lorene Eggleston Walker and I am the daughter of Selar Orland and Arva Williams
Eggleston. I am the second of 6
children, 3 girls and 3 boys. My parents
both grew up in small Utah towns,
my father in Eden and my mother in
Vineyard. They met in California
while visiting family and friends and decided to stay there to raise their
family.
I
was blessed to be born of goodly parents who loved the Lord. They both went on missions as young adults
and have been called to serve missions on the other side of the veil. I know this because of a dream I had after my
father died suddenly of a heart attack at the age of 50 when I was 19 years old
and in my first year of college. In my
dream, he came back and told me that he was called by the Lord to do His work
on the other side.
Sister
Walker and I met at the Institute of Religion adjacent to Mt. San Antonio Jr.
College in 1968 in Southern California. Upon asking Sister Walker what college
classes she was taking, she informed me that her hardest class was in ear
training which was a music class.
However, not wanting to let the opportunity to pass me by, I pulled her
hair away from the side of her head and said as politely as I could: jump ear, jump. From that moment on she reveled in my sense
of humor as she has for the past 43 years.
Leaving college, I joined the Air Force, and we saw each other one more
time before our summer reunion in 1971.
We both happened to attend a Young Adult dance in Sacramento
not knowing the other one of us would be there.
It had been several months since we had seen each other, and at the
dance we both saw each other about the same time. However, Sister Walker was a little bit
unsure if it really was me. I still
don't understand her hesitancy, as the only thing different about me was my
toupee and, golly gee, just because she never saw me with much hair on my head
is no reason not to recognize me.
Thirteen
years after my father died, when my mother was dying I was comforted by the Spirit
with the knowledge that everything would be alright. After she passed away, I questioned the
Lord–His definition of “alright” and mine were not the same. This period of time was very difficult for
me. I was a busy mother of 4 with one on
the way, going to school to finish classes I needed to earn my California
teaching credential, and of course serving in the church. As I pleaded with the Lord to understand why
my parents were taken so early in life, the Holy Spirit comforted me and I was
blessed with the knowledge that Heavenly Father was in charge and it was His
will. Although it’s been difficult, I
have learned to accept His will through this and other trials in my life. I have also learned to depend on the Lord.
I,
too, was born of goodly parents, or more to the point, I was born of a goodly
number of parents. First there are my
natural parents Richard and Eleanor Walker, although actually Gray is my
grandfather's last name and he was either adopted or hijacked the name Walker
when his mother married John Walker after her marriage to Ora Gray ended. Secondly, my natural mother returned to work
right after I was born and I was placed in a foster home where I was welcomed
into the Weberg family until I started high school then I returned to my real parent’s
home. While in High School, discovering
my parents alcohol abuse problem , I spent a lot of time with the family of my
best friend, Mike Vehawn. After my
parents died in 1985, Brother and Sister Vehawn became surrogate grandparents
to our children. Lastly, there is my Mission
Mom, Sister Sharon Walker, who we met in the MTC when we started our mission at
the end of August. So as you can see, I
have a goodly number of parents and for that matter a good number of family
lines to do family history work for. It
is almost overwhelming at times.
My
husband’s parents died within two months of each other 2 years after my mom’s
death. Our oldest daughter was 11 years
old and our youngest was two. Because
our children grew up pretty much without the privilege of having a close
relationship with grandparents, we decided after we retired to move close to
our children so that our grandchildren would have that privilege. Hence, we bought a home in Cedar
City, Utah where we would spend
the summers and one in Surprise, Arizona,
where we would spend the winters. Of
course, the nice weather in each place during those seasons had nothing to do
with our decision. We have spent the
last 4 years going back and forth between our two homes.
Almost
from the beginning of our marriage, my wife and I have talked of serving a
mission after our children were grown.
As the years came and went, however, she developed some health issues so
that when the time came that we were retired and would otherwise be considering
full-time missionary service, we figured that her health problems would prevent
it. So we decided that we would serve as
Church Service Missionaries. We looked
at a few possibilities and ended up serving at Deseret
Industries.
We
were able to serve in Cedar City
while we were there, and in Phoenix
when we were in Arizona. It was a wonderful experience which lasted
for a little over two years. After that,
my husband started volunteering at the family history center in Cedar
City. After a short time, he tried to convince me
to come and serve there also, but I felt that I didn’t know enough to be able
to be of service. Having come from a
long line of pioneer ancestors, there was little, I thought, that I could do
family history-wise. Boy, was I wrong! After I got started on family history, I
discovered that there was much I could do to clean up the records that were on
Family Tree. I also found some ancestors
which needed their temple work done. It
wasn’t long before the Spirit of Elijah took over, so, after a few weeks of my
husband nagging, opps, I mean encouraging me, I too started volunteering at the
Family History
Center. We also went to the temple regularly and did
the work for several family names that we had found.
This
continued for another year and a half.
Then, last spring, we felt like we needed to do something more. I started looking at other volunteer
opportunities, and Sister Walker did some sewing, but we both spent a lot of
time watching TV and otherwise wasting our time.
Just
before April Conference, I knelt and prayed for direction and the Spirit
whispered, “Go on a full-time mission.”
Some other things had led up to this point: for example, a conversation
with a sister at the temple while waiting to do initiatory work and a comment
from my doctor who is a member of the Church.
I had heard that the mission to the Family History Library in Salt Lake
(I didn’t know the full name of the mission at that time) was a good mission to
go to if you didn’t have the stamina to serve a proselytizing mission so
because of that, and our love for family history, that was where I wanted to
go. So on the Thursday before April
Conference, I told my husband that I thought we should go on a full-time mission. He was so excited, as were our children when
we told them.
When
we got here and the Mission Presidency said that they had prayed us here, we
knew it was true because we had felt the gentle nudgings of the Spirit which
brought us to this place at this time.
The Lord has blessed me with improved health and I have discovered that
there are some others that have health problems that are worse than mine yet
they continue to serve faithfully.
Being
a convert to the Church has resulted in my search for my ancestors a little bit
more challenging then Sister Walker’s.
However, since coming to this mission I have had an Elijah moment that I
will remember forever. My paternal
grandmother told me that she had a half brother who immigrated to the U. S. in
the late 1800's with his father and nanny from Germany; his nanny became his
step mother within days of their arrival.
I had found Gustav on the 1894 Michigan
State
Census and the 1900 U.S.
Census, but could find no more trace of him.
About a month ago at the Family History Library I found his death
certificate indicating that he died in 1909 at the age of 22. Shortly after finding this certificate, I had
a dream that there was a banner across my family tree on FamilySearch that said
"You will be happy to meet Charles, Clara and Gustav." At first I
thought this message was for anyone who looked at my family tree, but I have
come to understand that the message is just for me, and I look forward to the
time on other side of the veil when I will meet my Great-Grandparents Charles
and Clara and my Great-Uncle Gustav Janousky.
Recently I have completed his temple ordinances and we plan shortly to
complete his temple sealing to his father and step-mother.
We
are enjoying our mission here and love serving with so many wonderful
people. We know the gospel is true and
bear this testimony in the name of Jesus Christ, amen."
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